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Topic: parents of magic
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manaman70 Banned
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posted June 29, 2001 08:10 PM
Talk to them about this, tell them how much you like magic (dont over do it or they may be back to thinking its bad). Sit down and have a pleasnt disscussion with them, start it something like, "Mom/Dad (whovever you need to talk to, im betting its dad) I know how much you love me, and i dont want you to get mad when i bring this up (most likly he will start getting mad when you say that),but i really want to talk to you about that Card Game i play..." he may be mad that you brought it up, he may not i dont know him so i cant say its up to you to plan for any remark he will make (you probly heard them all already) and to let him now in the end that magic isnt your total life, but that its your hobbie, and you would like to be able to continue with it. And bring him down to the card shop introduce the owner/manager to your parents, introduce a few players also. __________________ Did you know that i existed? casue until someone told me, i thought i was a figment of my overactive imagination click me! if you want a ps1 and some really good games that is!
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Kupop Member
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posted July 01, 2001 09:08 PM
Well, i'm 4'4 but i'm pretty strong for my size, i don't fight back with anyone because a- most of the kids i know are like 5'6 and b- because the 2 times i ever fought back i actually hurt people, so now i'm afraid to hurt someone. The 2nd time, my mom used to beat me but she was too weak to draw blood, but one day she did. So what did i do? I belted her across the face. She fell and fractured her tailbone. She still complains about it and hates my guts for it, she hates magic but my dad tolerates it so i don't really have a problem except earning $$. Try showing them this article to see that Magic isn't really evil, and they might understand. Good luck!!!__________________ Lt. Forsaken Kupop GAB Jade Team, Loyal Defender of Prodigal Sorcerors. Trade them to me!!!Lands charred black, rivers boiled, Crops and wells alike despoiled, Mountains leveled, forests felled, Footprints of the beasts of Keld Music is humanity's inheritance, and Tool's half the w
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The Magic Dude Member
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posted July 02, 2001 01:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kupop: Well, i'm 4'4 but i'm pretty strong for my size, i don't fight back with anyone because a- most of the kids i know are like 5'6 and b- because the 2 times i ever fought back i actually hurt people, so now i'm afraid to hurt someone. The 2nd time, my mom used to beat me but she was too weak to draw blood, but one day she did. So what did i do? I belted her across the face. She fell and fractured her tailbone. She still complains about it and hates my guts for it, she hates magic but my dad tolerates it so i don't really have a problem except earning $$. Try showing them this article to see that Magic isn't really evil, and they might understand. Good luck!!!
Horrible story, dude. But the suggestion is quite good: did you (mageta) show the article to your parents yet? It might work, and everything has to be tried... __________________ The Poetry Post -- Post all your poems here!*The Magic Dude* e-mail: magic_styler@hotmail.com ICQ #: 91433591
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innocent_little_kid Member
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posted July 12, 2001 03:39 PM
i'm sorry for all of you who don't have it good. i guess i have it better than most people. when i was in about 3rd grade, my mom finally finished getting it through my head that the first priority for me is to do well in school, and i've been doing that ever since (never gotten anything but A's on final report cards, i know it's sad, don't laugh ). so as long as my parents see that i know what i'm doing they let me pretty much do whatever i want. i just graduated hs, but i still live with them (will go away to college in 2.5 month - Caltech ). we're not rich or anything (we immigrated here from russia 5 years ago), but i do have my own credit card (one for students) and checking account (i need one to put $ from my job & scholarships, etc), so i have no problem buying cards. another thing that my parents respect, for which i greatly admire them, is my privacy. seriously though if my parents found out how much $ i spent on magic, they would defitenly freak. when i first started playing (after tempest), my parents didn't really approve, but they did not forbid me from it either, and i think my mom even bought me a couple of starters (a 5th one for new year) when i asked. overall they think that magic is silly, but not bad or evil or anything. they didn't tell me to stop playing, and when i went to a shop a few times they were ok with that. luckily i live in a big city (close to l.a.), so finding stuff to do w/ magic is not that big of a problem. now i have a car (me and my brother share it), which makes things easier. my dad a couple of times asked me about cards, which was interesting, and my grandparents did too. i actually sucked one of my friends into the game. i don't think he's addicted yet, but his parents are also very nice, he even tried teaching his dad how to play. anyway, i hope all of you who have problems, will resolve them. just stay strong, and keep at it, and everything should turn out alright. dima__________________ The willow knows what the storm does not: that the power to endure harm outlives the power to inflict it.Inhale. Kill. Exhale. email me at: dima_ky@hotmail.com
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kingkyle3 Member
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posted July 12, 2001 03:55 PM
Well my parents don't care if I play however they think any1 over the age of 15 or 16 who still plays has no life. I go to tournaments and they think I will be the oldest one there (for the record i'm 14). Then my mom came into the store once and saw that they were all older guys and they said that I shouldn't grow up to be like them. They also hink it's a child game like Pokemon. I always explain to them that older people do have lives and there's nothin wrong w/older people playing magic. My challenge now is to hope thhey let me to continue to buy. Which i think they will now that they don't care about the game any more.-DA king __________________ "Yeah, Moe, those teams sure did suck last night. They just plain sucked. I've seen teams suck before, but those were the suckiest bunch of sucks that ever sucked." - Homer Simpson Friends don't let friends vote Republican =) TOOL RULES AIM-RatKing1001 Least amt. of Refs in IL!!
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killjoy72 Member
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posted July 29, 2001 11:44 PM
quote: Well my parents don't care if I play however they think any1 over the age of 15 or 16 who still plays has no life.
And I'm sure that someone who goes out to a bar to get liquored up has a life Well my parents are extremely cool about it. I haven't really bought much in the way of magic except if I need it for a deck, but they don't say anything about me playing and that's just fine by me. __________________ "Must not all things at the last be swallowed up in death?"--Plato"All men make mistakes. But a good man yields when he knows his course is wrong, and repairs the evil. The only crime is pride."--Sophocles
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phoenix Member
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posted July 30, 2001 09:43 AM
a lot of parents don't seem to like it until you try and teach them and they lack the brain capacity to understand it
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gbs3769 Member
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posted August 02, 2001 10:20 AM
I didn't read the whole thread, so bear with me if I touch on some things that other people have already mentioned.My parents never really saw a problem with me playing Magic. The only reason they were leary of it at first was because me and my friends used to start lots of things and not finish them. Like we used to play tons of other CCG's but we never really focused on them. So my mom had me sign a contract saying that if I started to play Magic, I had to play it for at least a year. Well, it has been at least 7 years now and I am still playing so I think that worked out. Whoever mentioned sitting down and talking with your parents hit the nail on the head. I have always been 100% honest with my parents, and they have always supported me in whatever it is I have wanted to do. I have a great relationship with them (and that is the key) and I know that I can turn to them for anything. If you sit down and talk with your parents about why you play Magic, and what Magic is I think that they will understand a little more why you play. Have your parents been to the store that you used to hang out at? Have they been there when an event is going on (group playing cards)? If not, maybe you should try and get them to go with you sometime. A lot of the time, parents are more worried about the crowd you are with than anything. If they meet the kids you hang out with and see that they aren't bad then they might accept it a little more. I hope that helps a little bit. - Matt __________________ Matt Tobia AIM: TobySU03 gbs3769@hotmail.com Ref-list H/W List #2 Poster in Syracuse, NY (Does anyone live in Syracuse, NY?)
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mageta,the lion_00 Member
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posted August 02, 2001 11:35 AM
WOW! This thing is still running I wrote it like 2 or 3 months ago. damn, well, thnx for the advice people __________________ —•mageta,the lion_00•— —_—†——aka——†—_— —_—†Vice Admiral†—_— •Founders Section Leader •GAB Ketracel White Team
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gbs3769 Member
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posted August 02, 2001 02:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by mageta,the lion_00: WOW! This thing is still running I wrote it like 2 or 3 months ago. damn, well, thnx for the advice people
Of course. We all just hope it works out for you. - Matt
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SonOfYawgmoth Member
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posted August 09, 2001 12:54 AM
Wow, this post changed me, it helped me to learn to appreciate what I have__________________ Aim: SoNxOfxYaWgMoTh -------------------- (Un-)Proud Member of the Children Of Yawgmoth
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Avatar of Stuff Member
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posted August 09, 2001 10:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by phoenix: a lot of parents don't seem to like it until you try and teach them and they lack the brain capacity to understand it
Oh man when i tried to teach my dad to play...
Well magic isnt a huge part of my life. I just play a game or two 2-3 times a week. Maybe just try to find something else interesting. And just hope ur dad doesnt showup at the store when the weird gothic guys are there. My parents wont let me by more then a pack a month of cards. They say i should save my $$$on college and cars.
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mageta,the lion_00 Member
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posted August 12, 2001 08:45 AM
well, thnx4all the advice but I am done with this post, the issue hasnt been resolved but I will figure some way out of this dictatorship, thnx. mageta__________________ viva signature!
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civ73 Member
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posted August 12, 2001 10:03 PM
Nobody's missing anything. You've been warned.
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The Magic Dude Member
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posted August 18, 2001 10:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by civ73: You guys can't take stuff just standing there . u got to understand . some one picks on u . kick there *** . no matter wat . if it means use weapons then do it . if it means u got to bash his whole face in then do it . u got to earn respect or else every one just steps on your face . same thing with parents they yell at u . u yell back. parents alone have power because u give them power . remeber always to fight back . even if it means u have to go to the extremes . dun bescaried to fight . its a thrill man. pain is nothing . at most is u get killed and when your died its all over .
Err...pardon me for asking, but who raised you? __________________ The Poetry Post -- Post all your poems here!*The Magic Dude* e-mail: magic_styler@hotmail.com ICQ #: 91433591
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MAGIC is CARDBOARD crack Member
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posted August 18, 2001 10:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by The Magic Dude: Err...pardon me for asking, but who raised you?
wolves, obviousely __________________ its crack...its crack, magic is crack~Valmtg, I will not Sleep until i have found your bumper Sticker~ -MAGIC is CARDBOARD crack, Her Humble Slave- Please, i need Vindicates, Im begging your, please trade me them!!!! Please??? i'll be your friend!!! 12th in posting in Ohio, for now anyways
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mageta,the lion_00 Member
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posted August 18, 2001 05:48 PM
oook, I have stopped playing mtg sooo i guess the post has lost all purpse hint hint
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The Magic Dude Member
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posted August 19, 2001 06:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by mageta,the lion_00: oook, I have stopped playing mtg sooo i guess the post has lost all purpse hint hint
Did you stop because of your parents' incomprehension? __________________ The Poetry Post -- Post all your poems here!*The Magic Dude* e-mail: magic_styler@hotmail.com ICQ #: 91433591
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reinhart Banned
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posted August 20, 2001 05:25 AM
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I really don't reccomend that. Saying that will only show your parents that you're immature.
serra angel i should i have put a disclaimer: I meant for you to say it AFTER you have tried to use logic and reasoning as serra recommended. When i wrote this, i was writing from my point of view (i have already tried to use logic, statistics, maturity bla bla bla) __________________ MagicTutorial.com teaches people how to play Magic
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sacrificial god Member
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posted August 31, 2001 05:53 PM
i always thought that magic came from two things in love, wizards and money.__________________ "I don't need a plan, just a goal. The rest will follow." -Gerrardplease reply to any offer by posting on my list or email me @ johnboyisking@hotmail.com my icq is 126631911
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The Magic Dude Member
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posted August 31, 2001 06:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by sacrificial god: i always thought that magic came from two things in love, wizards and money.
Err...""? __________________ The Poetry Post -- Post all your poems here!*The Magic Dude* e-mail: magic_styler@hotmail.com ICQ #: 91433591 AIM: TheDreamDude
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