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Boogers
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posted January 27, 2002 10:44 PM   Click Here to See the Profile for Boogers Click Here to Email Boogers Send a private message to Boogers Click to send Boogers an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
I've seen many an article, post and profile on this wonderful forum speak of the draw that Magic has enacted on our lives. We play for fun, yes, but as far as obsession goes we dare not admit that Magic dominates our social realm (and if we do than we subliminally know we would rather expand our horizons). I fall into this trap as deeply as anyone can, playing competitively and casually and enjoying my experiences with what so many have deemed "cardboard crack."

The question of why we play has also come into inquiry many a time here on MOTL, and many have answered with both serious and sarcastic anecdotes: "I play for the girls," "I play for the rush," or even "I play so that I have the pretty pictures to admire when I'm feelin' low." I figure I may as well expose a different world of Magic that many have experienced and yet to which few have actually admitted.

I play Magic because of its uncanny ability to release me from my reality. As deep and confusing as that sounds, it remains just that. I do realize that I'm not the only person on Earth with problems, but I have had a very difficult time finding an escape from them. Whether it's family issues, social dilemmas or self esteem problems I have a feeling that for everyone, Magic at some point has represented a way to find amusement despite them. I'll be the first, as far as I know, to admit that I whole-heartedly fall into this category.

I have a feeling that for those who are still reading through this article I seem like a pretty pessimistic individual. Allow me to reverse that feeling a little. Is the fact that Magic releases one from reality necessarily a bad thing? I believe that rhetorically it isn't. While I play Magic I have a great time laughing, strategizing and even winning once in a blue moon, and throughout all that everything dismal in my life disappears. I become very involved in the gaming world, and through this I discover the happiness and glee that I so dearly need through some of my more difficult times. As unfortunate as temporary optimism can be, I believe that by entering into the whimsical world of Magic one can exert oneself to a degree that is seldomly found in society regularly.

So for me, at least, one question remains: is it healthy to shove one's problems out of the limelight in order to find temporary enjoyment? My answer is yes. While I know that when I reenter the real world everything wrong with it for me is going to reappear, I at least know that I am able to, at any practical time, find happiness in something so simple as a card game. I still may seem like a very dismal person, but at least I can admit that I realize it's true and that I can, on my own, exert myself and, to any possible extent, make other people happy by spreading my temporary glee to whoever I encounter. I somewhere heard that happiness is contageous, and if that's indeed true then I believe that I'm doing my best to "Pay it Forward."

Thanks for reading.

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iiven
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posted January 28, 2002 09:26 AM   Click Here to See the Profile for iiven Click Here to Email iiven Send a private message to iiven Click to send iiven an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
i think you just explained why its cardboard crack
 
Boogers
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posted January 28, 2002 10:28 AM   Click Here to See the Profile for Boogers Click Here to Email Boogers Send a private message to Boogers Click to send Boogers an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
It's cardboard crack for different people for different reasons. I just felt like explaining mine.

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Misery
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posted January 28, 2002 03:39 PM   Click Here to See the Profile for Misery Click Here to Email Misery Send a private message to Misery Click to send Misery an Instant MessageVisit Misery's Homepage  Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
Extremely, EXTREMELY, well written, compulsively so, and it surfaces a new persprective on Magic i didnt know i was playing for. In more ways than one i DO play to escape any and all of my problems, to get away from the bad and trot happily into the good. Keep it up, Boogers, this was a blast to read.

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ice_pick25
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posted January 28, 2002 03:47 PM   Click Here to See the Profile for ice_pick25 Click Here to Email ice_pick25 Send a private message to ice_pick25 Click to send ice_pick25 an Instant MessageVisit ice_pick25's Homepage  Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
Couldnt have put it better myself
 
MTG_Wolf
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posted January 28, 2002 03:49 PM   Click Here to See the Profile for MTG_Wolf Click Here to Email MTG_Wolf Send a private message to MTG_Wolf Click to send MTG_Wolf an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
Well written, good article.
VIVA EL MAGICO!
 
Boogers
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posted January 28, 2002 11:16 PM   Click Here to See the Profile for Boogers Click Here to Email Boogers Send a private message to Boogers Click to send Boogers an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
Thanks a lot for the replies guys. I think that at the very least this article should implore some players to realize how precious their time is immersed in the fantasy world that is Magic: the Gathering.

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Chorax
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posted January 29, 2002 05:44 AM   Click Here to See the Profile for Chorax Click Here to Email Chorax Send a private message to Chorax Click to send Chorax an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
I cannot tell you how much I agree. Often I am asked as to why I spend so much money and time on a *stupid* card game. Well if its something that makes me happy, and allows me to escape the troubles and hardships of my otherwise difficult life than why not! What is there to better spend time on but ones own happiness. Isn't that what life is about?

Anyways, thanx for a very well written, great article.

 
Corrupted_Crosis
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posted January 30, 2002 05:21 AM   Click Here to See the Profile for Corrupted_Crosis Click Here to Email Corrupted_Crosis Send a private message to Corrupted_Crosis Click to send Corrupted_Crosis an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
Another well written article, who I'm becoming to expect on the front page of MOTL. I totally agree with you on how it releases you from the normal reality problems, and lets you escape. I myself will admit that being 17 and in college, while working is one of the most stressful things in my life, but I normally get together on Wed. and Fri. with a bunch of guys, I consider friends, at a local store and we're all playing Magic well until after midnight, and I often don't return home on Fridays, instead I go on to another friends house and play DnD or Magic, whichever happens to appear amusing at the time. Many ask why I spend so much as well, I tell them for collectability and for the fact that I like playing the game. Gaming is a way to relieve stress, make friends, and have fun. I ask you all one question: Which of the reasons do you play for?

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bejeezus
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posted February 04, 2002 02:16 PM   Click Here to See the Profile for bejeezus Click Here to Email bejeezus Send a private message to bejeezus Click to send bejeezus an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
ya know, Ive got a brother that uses magic and other rpg's to escape. my self, I play for the pure rush of crushing an opponent soundly. I know this is not the right reason, but thats what I enjoy most about the game, being able to figure it to a science, with unbeatable strategy and pre game planning. Its a great game, but not a great escape for me.

I use my music for that.

But, as goes without showing, an extremely thought provoking article, kudos for that.

keep em coming.

 
ragefistnate
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posted February 07, 2002 02:01 AM   Click Here to See the Profile for ragefistnate Click Here to Email ragefistnate Send a private message to ragefistnate Click to send ragefistnate an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
This was a very well written article. It gave me the perspective that I was looking for to legitimize why I play the game. My G/F hates that I spend so much time playing the game (I spend any where from 20-30 hrs. a week playing the game). I tell her that I play it mainly to relieve stress associated with school. She doesn't buy it because to her, it is just a card game to her.

Anyway, what irks me the most about people that don't play the game is that they don't compare it to another hobby or thing that they spend a lot of time doing. Take for example, a football player. That player is going to spend everyday of the week lifting weights, practicing thier moves, watching films, or doing whatever to improve thier playing ability on the field. It is the same as playing magic (except for the exercise, but same pricipal). My point is that people who don't play the game just don't understand that a "stupid card game" can really relieve stress and promote creative thinking processes while participating in the game. I come up with all kinds of ideas when I play magic because it gives me an opportunity to think about what I want to think and not what other people want me to think. I don't want to be a programmed machine that follows the rest of the herd, I want to be an individual. That is my right as a human being. I will admit though, that some of that programming happenes in magic with scrictly net deck players, but that is a different article.

The bottom line is that magic is a great way for someone to relieve stress and get an intellectual challege all packaged neatly in a little card game. It is just the same for someone who wants a physical challenge while playing a sport. We all have the right to choose the activities that make us happy, mine just happens to be playing magic.

ragefistnate

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hooligan495
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posted February 12, 2002 01:45 PM   Click Here to See the Profile for hooligan495 Click Here to Email hooligan495 Send a private message to hooligan495 Click to send hooligan495 an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
Great article... I think you and others that replied really make some excellent points. A hobby is many things to a person, skill building, a challenge, a form of relaxation, and yes a way to put the problems and pressures away. When an athlete is said to be in the "zone" isn't that athlete pushing away everything that could bother them?

Boogers you say:

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So for me, at least, one question remains: is it healthy to shove one's problems out of the limelight in order to find temporary enjoyment? My answer is yes. While I know that when I reenter the real world everything wrong with it for me is going to reappear, I at least know that I am able to, at any practical time, find happiness in something so simple as a card game.

I think that you really hit the nail on the head. What distinguishes the "hobby" and enjoyment from Obsession and compulsiveness is a person's ability to return to reality and accept that the problems are there to be dealt with. Sounds to me Boogers that you have it figured out.

now time management between all your hobbies and life is a whole other topic for discussion ....

Thanks for writing this Boogers!

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Boogers
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posted February 12, 2002 03:12 PM   Click Here to See the Profile for Boogers Click Here to Email Boogers Send a private message to Boogers Click to send Boogers an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
I want to thank everyone who has read this article for your many awesome replies. I think this is a good issue to discuss, and I'm glad that there has been so much positive feedback on the subject.

I've been recieving much praise for this article, and I just want to express my sincere appreciation for everyone who understands the standpoints I'm making.

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hippie121987
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posted February 05, 2003 11:49 AM   Click Here to See the Profile for hippie121987 Click Here to Email hippie121987 Send a private message to hippie121987 Click to send hippie121987 an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
Very well put Boogers, I myself have never really admitted as to why I keep playing. I feel like quitting every now and then, but I realize that when I get down I always go and sort cards, trade, or play with friends. My friends are the most important people in my life and Magic allows me to hang around them and have fun. This was a great article to read and I couldn't have said it better myself.

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xxPlaSTicxx
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posted February 09, 2003 06:58 PM   Click Here to See the Profile for xxPlaSTicxx Click Here to Email xxPlaSTicxx Send a private message to xxPlaSTicxx Click to send xxPlaSTicxx an Instant Message Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote 
great article. i never really thought of it that way, but now that i do it seems that that is also one of the reasons i continue to play. once again great article.

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