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Topic: People that aren't worth dealing with.
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daner Member
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posted December 19, 2011 09:21 PM
So recently on my sales list I had a member tell me that they wanted "x" amount of cards and I thought we had reached an agreement. I gave him a final price, he replied back if all cards are NM then he would send the money, I replied back yes then he came across with "I'll pay X amount for bulk cards" which while it didn't lower the value of the sale that much he still took many cards listed @ $.35 each and dropped them to $.20 at the last min and said that this was his offer.Where does one get off doing that? Who the HELL do you think you are? I might not have the references as let's say Slinga, or some of the other bigger sellers on MOTL but seriously? This is coming from a guy who just became a member on December 5th! He had 0 refs when his first offer came in. I wont say his name, although you coul deasily check my sales list and figure it out. Still, I can't technically BTA him because no address was ever exchanged but this is just a low down move. I'm am pulling the deal off the table from him, and will refuse him any service in the future. It is member like these that I believe need to stop coming to MOTL. Please don't encourage this kind of behavior from others, but I know most of the smarter members wont be pushed around either. Down right insulting if you ask me, I don't know how any others would feel about this but I'm just offende to the max. Person says they want to buy cards at your price, then says ok as long as everything is NM, then says no...I'll give you this instead. Well gl *******, enjoy your time on MOTL. Hope it's short lived.
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Lord Crovax Member
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posted December 19, 2011 09:25 PM
I 100% agree, getting to many....well I'm not sure what to call them that would be even remotely nice.To many using SCG, to many expecting to trade large amount of fifty cent to a dollar cards for 15$+ cards. I miss the old days, when you actually got fair offers, or at least offers where counter offering was a option, most offers I get now, I just pass and don't look back as they are usually that unfair, or plain just not worth it. __________________ I shall have the souls of all who defy me. "Lord Crovax"
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Undomian Member
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posted December 19, 2011 10:07 PM
People just don't seem to know the definition of trading up anymore, it seems. Even if I do make that sort of trade offer, I try to put it about 20% in the person's favor, just because I need those cards and recognize their relative value. The same works in reverse, though, I suppose. I'm currently involved in a trade with a member with a significantly higher number of refs than myself, and although we had originally agreed to a simulsend, he waited until I emailed him about my cards to tell me that he had waited for my half of the trade to arrive before sending his out. That's just as scummy as some of the crap people go around proposing in trade threads these days.
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RJM Member
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posted December 19, 2011 10:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Undomian: The same works in reverse, though, I suppose. I'm currently involved in a trade with a member with a significantly higher number of refs than myself, and although we had originally agreed to a simulsend, he waited until I emailed him about my cards to tell me that he had waited for my half of the trade to arrive before sending his out. That's just as scummy as some of the crap people go around proposing in trade threads these days.
I'm pretty sure that you could actually BTA over that if you really wanted to. I understand being late sending in a trade when things come up, it's happened to me before. But that's just being a jerk.
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Bagbokk Member
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posted December 19, 2011 10:16 PM
The only real thing that annoys me to any extent is when people offer to buy things and then don't respond to emails. I find that it's just not worthwhile to be angry or frustrated about anything though, so long as it doesn't become a BTA-worthy offense.
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Lord Crovax Member
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posted December 19, 2011 10:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Undomian: People just don't seem to know the definition of trading up anymore, it seems. Even if I do make that sort of trade offer, I try to put it about 20% in the person's favor, just because I need those cards and recognize their relative value. The same works in reverse, though, I suppose. I'm currently involved in a trade with a member with a significantly higher number of refs than myself, and although we had originally agreed to a simulsend, he waited until I emailed him about my cards to tell me that he had waited for my half of the trade to arrive before sending his out. That's just as scummy as some of the crap people go around proposing in trade threads these days.
Yea, that's BTA worthy, basically breaking contract...very poor trading practice.
__________________ I shall have the souls of all who defy me. "Lord Crovax"
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PortlisX Member
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posted December 19, 2011 10:57 PM
There are a LOT of poor trading/buying practices on this site, all of which are very frustrating.I regularly find myself frustrated by people posting to my sales lists for any number of reasons. As was already said, I'd say 25% of the people that post to my sales list where they are clearly buying something (such as, "I can take X and X, email me the total") never bother to respond to my emails after I email them. They flat out ignore the email completely. It very much makes me wonder why they are wasting their time posting in the first place. I also regularly spend a LOT of time digging through boxes and binders to find large lots of cards for EDH buyers after we've got a confirmed deal, only to be told later "I actually already picked up X, X and X locally, so I don't need those any more." It's particularly frustrating when you've spent a half hour digging for lower priced stuff just to be told that you've basically completely wasted your time. And then as you said, one of the most frustrating is when you have a confirmed deal but addresses / paypal info might not have been exchanged yet, and THEN they try and haggle. Something along the lines of them posting to my sale list with "I'll take X and X", I'll email them back with "great, here's my paypal info and thanks", and then I'll get a response of "can you do $Xx.xx for them?" It's like.... seriously man? If you wanted to haggle, the time to do that would have been when you initially posted to my list with something along the lines of "I can take X and X for $Xx." No offense to all of you of course, but I've found through my years of buying/selling/trading/playing MTG that there are a lot of pretty crappy individuals that seem to love this game. Lots of immaturity (and I don't mean just the kiddies), thieves, scammers, cheaters, and just all around inconsiderate young guys who think they are much, much cooler than they are. The mentality of most MTG gamers alone is what basically caused me to stop playing all together and just collect/buy/sell/trade instead.
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Jazaray Moderator
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posted December 19, 2011 11:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Undomian: People just don't seem to know the definition of trading up anymore, it seems. Even if I do make that sort of trade offer, I try to put it about 20% in the person's favor, just because I need those cards and recognize their relative value. The same works in reverse, though, I suppose. I'm currently involved in a trade with a member with a significantly higher number of refs than myself, and although we had originally agreed to a simulsend, he waited until I emailed him about my cards to tell me that he had waited for my half of the trade to arrive before sending his out. That's just as scummy as some of the crap people go around proposing in trade threads these days.
That is absolutely BTAable. I would suggest you do so. Thanks, Jazaray __________________ A Plastered Dragon Original Limerick: There was a nice lassie named Jaz Many wished to have what she has, A delicate face, A soft warm embrace, And a whole lot of bedroom pizzazz.WeedIan: Jazaray is like MOTL's Mom. Jaz is now selling Tupperware! Help her out! ;)
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caquaa Member
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posted December 20, 2011 02:01 AM
kuyagelo is just trying to flip profit on here and its pretty obvious. I offered to sell at his stated buy prices, then he messages me asking me to lower the price. I've also watched his buy prices consistently go lower and lower.my last message to him: Think I'll just pass on everything, doesn't seem worth while. He made what was worth the effort and time into something where he was nickle and dime-ing everything. Hopefully he either learns or goes away, I don't really care which.
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Eatatjoes Member
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posted December 20, 2011 02:05 AM
Its pretty sickening when people try to lowball like that, especially to a member like daner, who always has really cheap, and competitive prices on all his cards. These new members need to shape up, or kick rocks.
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yoriagami Member
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posted December 20, 2011 02:50 AM
A couple year back at a prerelease a friend was trading and using card values to work something out. So he arrives at identical value piles and suggests the trade and the other guy tries to go with "you had said these cards were 0.5euro, not 1euro"... which my friend had NOT said at any point. After my friend pointed this out 2x to the guy, he was still insistent. My friend just picked his cards back up, closed his binder and walked away. IMHO that's really all you can do when you find "minor league smart asses" like that. All the more so on the web. If he tries that crap before sending out there's NO guarantee what he'll do once he has your cards in hand.
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OGB Member
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posted December 20, 2011 06:49 AM
I think I reached this point when I saw someone posting on a buylist and came across this:Kher Keep $0.20 -->$0.25? Literal nickel-and-diming. I just had to laugh. Also getting tired of seeing the : Wants Xx duals Xx fetches Xx imperial seal Xx 1996 world champion __________________ 2010 Homer Simpson Award Winnerhttp://classic.magictraders.com/ubb/Forum12/HTML/016901.html
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nderdog Moderator
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posted December 20, 2011 07:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by PortlisX: the most frustrating is when you have a confirmed deal but addresses / paypal info might not have been exchanged yet
You do realize that this is literally impossible, right? If address/paypal info hasn't been exchanged, by definition you do not have a confirmed trade.
quote: Originally posted by caquaa: I offered to sell at his stated buy prices, then he messages me asking me to lower the price.
If someone does this, let me know. If they're not abiding by their own prices, then they shouldn't have posted them. __________________ There's no need to fear, UNDERDOG is here!All your Gruul Nodorogs are belong to me. Trade them to me, please! Report rules violations. Remember the Auctions Board!
[Edited 1 times, lastly by nderdog on December 20, 2011]
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Bagbokk Member
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posted December 20, 2011 08:47 AM
quote: You do realize that this is literally impossible, right? If address/paypal info hasn't been exchanged, by definition you do not have a confirmed trade.
I just assumed he's using "confirmed" in the sense that "hey, we already agreed on selling X for $Y (the only thing that remains is to exchange addresses and send out)" and not the MOTL rule "confirmed deal" sense.
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mchainmail Member
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posted December 20, 2011 10:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by OGB: I think I reached this point when I saw someone posting on a buylist and came across this:Kher Keep $0.20 -->$0.25? Literal nickel-and-diming. I just had to laugh.
If someone is buying a large number of low-value cards, it makes a difference. Digging through a box to find specific cards is very time consuming, and the cards should baseline at a price that represents that.
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AlmostGrown Member
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posted December 20, 2011 10:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by daner: <Sentiments I agree with>
I agree with you 100%.
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choco man Member
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posted December 20, 2011 11:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by nderdog: If someone does this, let me know. If they're not abiding by their own prices, then they shouldn't have posted them.
kuyagelo did this to me with almost every card that I offered to sell him on his buylist. On the foil Phantasmal Images that he wanted to buy. $19->$17->$15, but it wasn't like anyone was selling to him and he was getting excess offers. but like the others, I just move on. It's not really worth any effort to deal with MOTL'ers like that. I also pass on BTA'ing members who are supposed to send first, but their cards are "lost" in the mail. I figured that I didn't get ripped on cards, but just wasted time on those jokers.
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PortlisX Member
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posted December 20, 2011 11:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by nderdog: You do realize that this is literally impossible, right? If address/paypal info hasn't been exchanged, by definition you do not have a confirmed trade.
Yeah, I'm pretty sure you know what I meant. The reason I phrased it that way was specifically so that it was known the other party wasn't technically doing anything against the rules, but was going about their business in an extremely irritating manner to deal with. As far as I'm concerned, someone posting on your list with "I'll take <x stuff>, email me the total" is confirming a purchase. Not necessarily by the rule of MOTL law, but by what I consider to be the proper and respectful way to go about one's dealings. I'd never try to BTA someone for not following through at that point because I do very much understand that according to MOTL they haven't done anything to warrant it, but going about business in that manner is a very quick way to get me to never want to do business with that individual ever again.
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gcowhsu Member
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posted December 20, 2011 11:26 AM
You should post names. The anonymity of the Internet has made forums just an absolute **** load of crap. It's not like it's their real name anyway.
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daner Member
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posted December 20, 2011 12:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by gcowhsu: You should post names. The anonymity of the Internet has made forums just an absolute **** load of crap. It's not like it's their real name anyway.
Well I wasn't going to post his name but it sems like others have had similar problems with this member... kuyagelo
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slurpee Member
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posted December 20, 2011 01:25 PM
This is one of my pet peeves. Nothing ticks me off more then spending an hour pulling cards only for them to say I only need a couple of those now or they don't want them at all. I have my own list of people I don't respond back to when they post of my list because I am not going to spend even a minute wasting my time on them again after they have done this more then once to me.
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Jazaray Moderator
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posted December 20, 2011 01:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by choco man: I also pass on BTA'ing members who are supposed to send first, but their cards are "lost" in the mail. I figured that I didn't get ripped on cards, but just wasted time on those jokers.
And you wonder why this still goes on and on with the same members. If you don't post them, other people won't know to avoid dealing with them. There's no record of past happenings for us Mods to go by. I would post every single person that broke MOTL rules during a trade with me on the BTA. Every one. Thanks, Jazaray
__________________ A Plastered Dragon Original Limerick: There was a nice lassie named Jaz Many wished to have what she has, A delicate face, A soft warm embrace, And a whole lot of bedroom pizzazz.WeedIan: Jazaray is like MOTL's Mom. Jaz is now selling Tupperware! Help her out! ;)
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ryan2754 Member
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posted December 20, 2011 03:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by slurpee: This is one of my pet peeves. Nothing ticks me off more then spending an hour pulling cards only for them to say I only need a couple of those now or they don't want them at all. I have my own list of people I don't respond back to when they post of my list because I am not going to spend even a minute wasting my time on them again after they have done this more then once to me.
Well, I can be privy to doing this on occasion, so I apologize if I have ever done this to you or any other MOTL member, especially with my constantly changing want list. I offer for cards on here on Friday before I go, and happen to pick up one or two cards at FNM. I apologize, because I remember when my collection was large, and searching through cards was time consuming. Mea culpa. __________________ -Schmitty 5th in Refs [224] in OH-IO (8 behind helper monkey) 2nd in Posts [6502] in OH-IO (only 1600 behind Val) “If Brad Stevens is the future of coaching in college basketball, the sport is in a good place.” - Rick Pitino
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caquaa Member
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posted December 20, 2011 04:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by choco man: kuyagelo did this to me with almost every card that I offered to sell him on his buylist. On the foil Phantasmal Images that he wanted to buy. $19->$17->$15, but it wasn't like anyone was selling to him and he was getting excess offers
yah, I was considering selling him some and watched his prices drop. Seems this whole thread is about him, lol.
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bigballashotcaller Member
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posted December 20, 2011 04:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by caquaa: kuyagelo is just trying to flip profit on here and its pretty obvious. I offered to sell at his stated buy prices, then he messages me asking me to lower the price. I've also watched his buy prices consistently go lower and lower.my last message to him: Think I'll just pass on everything, doesn't seem worth while. He made what was worth the effort and time into something where he was nickle and dime-ing everything. Hopefully he either learns or goes away, I don't really care which.
Why doesn't everybody just offer to sell to him, go back and forth with emails/messages when they have time, and then just never finish the deal when he says he's ready to pay? Now that would be funny if everybody just kept doing that to him to troll him...for like 6 months.
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