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Topic: MTG Ebay disupte with an ignoramus. How to proceed?
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ryanghall Member
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posted December 13, 2012 06:13 PM
  
So I bid on, and win, a MP UNL Underground Sea for $87. The seller was from the US, and it said he may not ship internationally so I emailed him to see if he would ship to Canada, and if so, for how much. He replied, Dear ryanghall, I'm not sure I've never shipped to Canada but whatever the charges are will be passed on to you no more no less. the reason I charge a $1.64 for shipping here is that's what it costs me so whatever that cost is, That's what I will charge! Thanks for looking at my auction! - daninersrule Then, after I win the auction, I ask how much to pay for shipping and I get this: Dear ryanghall, Hey bud I just wanted to let you know I just got done at the post office and for me to get any kind of confirmation that it's going to be delivered to you I have to go priority mail with the insurance for the amount of the card it's going to cost $29.15 to ship this to you. I cannot provide signature confirmation nor can I do delivery confirmation so what I want to know is do you want to pay that much For this card or do you just want to cancel the transaction? I do apologize for this inconvenience but is what the post office is charging me! - daninersrule I wasn't aware that confirmation is now required by Ebay policy, and it said nothing about it on his auction, so I replied, trying to assuage his fears about evil liberal Canadians stealing his magical cards: Dear daninersrule, Hi, I get cards shipped all the time from the States and it's a couple of bucks. Why are you requiring a signature? I'm not going to rip you off Google my name and poker I also have 160 refs on the same name on magictraders. So can you just send it regular, assuming there is no marker/ink on it. - ryanghall Well, he conferred with his "girl" and this wasn't good enough for him:
Dear ryanghall, My girl works at the post office and she told me to specifically not ship internationally...any of my cards!!! now I see why I make this exception and in order for me to get insurance on the card no signature no delivery confirmation that can't even be guaranteed the only thing I can do is get insurance on the package. in order for me to get insurance I have to send it priority. which that's the cost so those Are the terms of the sale. if that doesn't work for you I truly am sorry and but I'm just trying to keep us both safe I want you to be happy an get the card...there is no marking there is no ink but i also want you to be satisfied with the overall buying experience! So the total is $116.16...I understand if u don't want to pay that much for shipping and I will cancel the transaction if you want. Thanks again for understanding the situation. - daninersrule Not sure why he thought I understood the situation of him trying to get out of an auction that he didn't feel went high enough, so I replied:
Dear daninersrule, Certified is $2.95 and there is no reason for it to cost more than this. I have had over 150 MTG packages sent from the US and there has *never* been a problem. The problem is on your end because you are needlessly requiring a signature. If you choose not to reasonably ship the item, I will have no choice but to leave you negative feedback. If ypu didbt want to ship intl and if you required something like a signature you shoukd have told me that when I emailed you, obviously. It's up to you, let me know. If you decline to ship reasonably and honor the auction, I will be forced to leave a negative, which doesn't seem necessary. - ryanghall For some reason, he feels the need to insure a $87 package so he replies:
Dear ryanghall, I am not requesting a signature!!! all I am trying to do is get insurance on the package!!! I can't get delivery confirmation!! I cannot get any type Of tracking!!! None!!! It's not even offered!!! The only way I can even get insurance on the package is to send it priority mail! I do apologize! these are the terms of the sale! I told you what ever the cost was would be passed on to you... I did tell you that whatever the charge was it was going to be paid by you and you agreed to that... now I had no idea, because I've never shipped internationally before, That it would cost so much. now you may feel like you need to leave negative feedback if you do that's fine I'll do the same. but you're right it doesn't need to be done but these were the terms of the auction you agreed to pay. but the fees are exorbitant I agree so like I said I will cancel the auction if that's what you want. - daninersrule I give him an ultimatum:
Dear daninersrule, No! I don't want it cancelled. But I sure suspect you do because you didn't get as much as you wanted. I don't care if you leave me a negative for no reason, I'm only planning on buying. There is NO reason you can't ship regular mail in a downloader and a plain envelope. I can give you $3 for this so you're still making $ off the shipping. Anyway, last chance, let me know. - ryanghall And he responds: Dear ryanghall, Well it seems we're at an impasse so I sent a request to cancel the transaction. - daninersrule And sends me an invoice for 29 odd dollars of shipping and a request to cancel the auction. MOTL, I'm pretty new with Ebay. How should I proceed?
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AGO Member
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posted December 13, 2012 06:21 PM
  
He wants tracking. You don't want to pay for it. I woudn't trust anybody's word on Ebay. Seems your sour that your not grabbing a cheap Underground Sea. Just have him ship it to someone here then they can ship it to you.
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ryanghall Member
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posted December 13, 2012 06:24 PM
  
The auction that I won? Yeah, that's how Ebay works, right?If anyone reputable from MOTL wants to get it shipped to them and pass it on to me, that would be wonderful.
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Vegas10 Member
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posted December 13, 2012 06:26 PM
  
Well if he wanted a sig that bad he could have tried international registered which I believe is $15 + regular shipping to canada, which in a bubble mailer should add no more than $3, to this registered is also insured it is part of the registered service. Ask him to check how much that would cost, even with that amount of shipping that is a good deal for a U-Sea, if he still wants to cancel(and you may want to do this anyway) contact Ebay customer service, though if he put no international shipping in his listing they will likley side with him.
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Lord Crovax Member
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posted December 13, 2012 06:28 PM

quote: Originally posted by Vegas10: Well if he wanted a sig that bad he could have tried international registered which I believe is $15 + regular shipping to canada, which in a bubble mailer should add no more than $3, to this registered is also insured it is part of the registered service. Ask him to check how much that would cost, even with that amount of shipping that is a good deal for a U-Sea, if he still wants to cancel(and you may want to do this anyway) contact Ebay customer service, though if he put no international shipping in his listing they will likley side with him.
I'm fairly certain he knows what the best shipping options are, and is simply refusing to use them. I bet you anything if asked to ship within US, shipping will still end up being some outrageous number. __________________ I shall have the souls of all who defy me. "Lord Crovax"
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ryanghall Member
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posted December 13, 2012 06:35 PM
  
Well, this pretty much confirms what he's up to.Dear daninersrule, Alright, I tell you what. How about I find a US address for you to ship to. That should be about $2, right? Can we do that? - ryanghall Dear ryanghall, No can do...can't ship to unconfirmed address...sorry - daninersrule
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jaromirjagr Member
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posted December 13, 2012 06:42 PM
  
It looks like hes trying to find a way to back out of the auction.Just get a third party.Maybe someone in the US from motl with high a ref count you can trust.
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ryanghall Member
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posted December 13, 2012 06:44 PM
  
Already done, he won't send to the "unconfirmed address" (which is confirmed).
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ermabwed Member
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posted December 13, 2012 06:45 PM

That just means the payment needs to come from a Paypal account that is confirmed/verified, and references the auction number. That's not hard.In his defense, Ebay basically does require delivery confirmation. They don't say that outright, but the policy is that the seller automatically loses any dispute for which they cannot provide it. I do expect such a requirement to be listed in the auction, and requiring insurance on a deal of this size is plain stupid, but it's not completely without basis. It's no longer possible to leave a negative for a buyer, so don't worry about his idle threat. I think you're wrong about certified mail being $2.95 though. I've found the shipping options from US to Canada to be about $1-2 for first class (PWE $1, bubble mailer $2), and jumping immediately to about what he quoted for anything trackable. Leave a negative regardless of how this turns out. This guy is clearly an idiot and the public deserves to be warned. __________________ Always buying misprints. See my list for the best Alternate 4th buy prices in the world (bulk rares $3!) T-Chinese Portal Feral Shadow $8 T-Chinese Portal Wrath of God (name your price) Legends APs
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dwiz Member
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posted December 13, 2012 06:49 PM
  
I wouldn't send anything of value internationally without registered either. As a seller, if the buyer opens a claim, you lose no matter what unless you have registered. Would you put $87 cash in the mail and trust a random person and hope he says he receives it? That's what you're asking this guy to do.
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Caramel Member
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posted December 13, 2012 06:49 PM
  
Tbh, I understand where he is coming from. Shipping without tracking to Canada means he is not protected at all, which means you can receive the card and say it still didn't get there and escalate on eBay to get a full refund (not saying you will). Same with unverified Paypal address. I never ship to a different address other than the one registered to their Paypal, ebay that is. MOTL is completely different. All I'm saying is most likely you are right and he is probably to weasel out of the sale but he has presented valid points.
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Jazaray Moderator
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posted December 13, 2012 06:53 PM

As I told you in #MOTL. He can send international first class parcel, with registered shipping, for $15. If he feels he wants a return receipt for it, it's another about $2.38. He doesn't require insurance for within the US, there's no reason for him to require it from another country, if he can get the tracking that he wants for a cheaper price. Thanks, Jazaray __________________ A Plastered Dragon Original Limerick: There was a nice lassie named Jaz Many wished to have what she has, A delicate face, A soft warm embrace, And a whole lot of bedroom pizzazz.WeedIan: Jazaray is like MOTL's Mom. Melaleuca, go ahead, ask me what it is...
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ryanghall Member
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posted December 13, 2012 07:18 PM
  
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[Edited 1 times, lastly by ryanghall on December 13, 2012]
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dwiz Member
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posted December 13, 2012 07:23 PM
  
quote: Originally posted by ryanghall: .
Dude, you're in the wrong here, what are you trying to prove by posting his twitter pictures?
[Edited 1 times, lastly by Jazaray on December 13, 2012]
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dfitzg88 Member
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posted December 13, 2012 07:41 PM

you can add a second address to your paypal for him to ship it to. if you havent paid for it, i believe you can choose which address to have it shipped to when providing payment.
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Jazaray Moderator
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posted December 13, 2012 07:48 PM

quote: Originally posted by dwiz: Dude, you're in the wrong here, what are you trying to prove by posting his twitter pictures?
He's actually NOT in the wrong here. There are other ways to get tracking on packages sent internationally that are far cheaper. Although posting that was rather tacky. Ryan.  Thanks, Jazaray __________________ A Plastered Dragon Original Limerick: There was a nice lassie named Jaz Many wished to have what she has, A delicate face, A soft warm embrace, And a whole lot of bedroom pizzazz.WeedIan: Jazaray is like MOTL's Mom. Melaleuca, go ahead, ask me what it is...
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dwiz Member
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posted December 13, 2012 07:52 PM
  
quote: Originally posted by Jazaray: He's actually NOT in the wrong here. There are other ways to get tracking on packages sent internationally that are far cheaper.Although posting that was rather tacky. Ryan.  Thanks, Jazaray
Return receipt doesn't do anything in an ebay dispute. It needs to be trackable online which is only possible with registered mail. He can wave his little return receipt all he wants, it's not going to do anything except add $2.50 to his $87 loss.
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Volcanon Member
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posted December 13, 2012 07:53 PM

Don't bid on auctions that say US-only or "email me if you want foreign shipping" or something. Thats always a trap.
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Jazaray Moderator
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posted December 13, 2012 07:55 PM

quote: Originally posted by dwiz: Return receipt doesn't do anything in an ebay dispute. It needs to be trackable online which is only possible with registered mail. He can wave his little return receipt all he wants, it's not going to do anything except add $2.50 to his $87 loss.
Exactly, with REGISTERED shipping, which only costs $15. Thanks, Jazaray __________________ A Plastered Dragon Original Limerick: There was a nice lassie named Jaz Many wished to have what she has, A delicate face, A soft warm embrace, And a whole lot of bedroom pizzazz.WeedIan: Jazaray is like MOTL's Mom. Melaleuca, go ahead, ask me what it is...
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Lord Crovax Member
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posted December 13, 2012 07:57 PM

Problem here is, guy doesn't want to sell, and is trying to back out, shipping costs is no longer matters, bet you anything if you suddenly are like ok I'll pay, he will come up with some other reason why he can't.__________________ I shall have the souls of all who defy me. "Lord Crovax"
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slurpee Member
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posted December 13, 2012 07:58 PM
  
I agree you are in the wrong here. heck look at the badtrader posting that went down here last week, where the guy even absolved him of responsibility and he still filed a paypal dispute. AND WONI don't believe you are that new to ebay that you don't know that the seller needs proof of delivery. sure he is wrong on the shipping amount which should be about 15-16, but I don't think you want to pay that...
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Jazaray Moderator
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posted December 13, 2012 08:04 PM

quote: Originally posted by slurpee: I agree you are in the wrong here. heck look at the badtrader posting that went down here last week, where the guy even absolved him of responsibility and he still filed a paypal dispute. AND WONI don't believe you are that new to ebay that you don't know that the seller needs proof of delivery. sure he is wrong on the shipping amount which should be about 15-16, but I don't think you want to pay that...
Once again, no, he's not in the wrong, as there were cheaper shipping options that the seller refused to even consider, that would also give him tracking on the package. Thanks, Jazaray
__________________ A Plastered Dragon Original Limerick: There was a nice lassie named Jaz Many wished to have what she has, A delicate face, A soft warm embrace, And a whole lot of bedroom pizzazz.WeedIan: Jazaray is like MOTL's Mom. Melaleuca, go ahead, ask me what it is...
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B14ckM4g3 Member
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posted December 13, 2012 08:38 PM
  
Just tell him to go with fedex or usps. It's cheaper and more reliable.
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Thanos Member
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posted December 13, 2012 08:39 PM

Just refuse to cancel the transaction and leave him negative feedback, when he trys to leave you a strike explain that he was overcharging for shipping, you'll win.
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Mr.C Member
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posted December 13, 2012 09:15 PM

quote: Originally posted by Volcanon: Don't bid on auctions that say US-only or "email me if you want foreign shipping" or something. Thats always a trap.
This. I can sympathize with the seller. No way I'm going to run the risk of sending international, especially with eBay's policies.
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